When You Call 911 for Help and Still Get Arrested
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Reviewed by Attorney Nate Gjesdal
Feb 5, 2026
Most people assume that if they call 911 during a domestic violence incident, the police will protect them.
But sometimes, the person asking for help is the one who ends up in handcuffs.
In a recent case, a young woman found herself facing a serious felony charge after trying to leave an abusive relationship. She had recently graduated college and was focused on building her future. Instead, she was suddenly dealing with criminal accusations that could follow her for the rest of her life.
A Breakup That Turned Into a Felony Case
The client tried to end a toxic relationship. What should have been a difficult but private breakup quickly escalated into a confrontation. Fearing for her safety, she called 911.
When police arrived, she expected to be heard. Instead, officers relied heavily on the statements of her ex and people who were with him. Those witnesses supported his version of events, despite clear bias due to their relationship with him. The client felt her side was dismissed before it was ever properly considered.
By the end of the encounter, she was arrested.
When Police Only Hear One Side
Domestic violence cases are often decided in the first hour, before anyone has had time to gather the full story.
Officers usually arrive after the incident has already escalated. They may speak with whoever appears calmest or whoever speaks first. And when multiple witnesses are aligned on one side, the narrative can feel “confirmed” even when it is incomplete or inaccurate.
Once an arrest happens, prosecutors often rely on the initial report unless the defense steps in early to challenge it.
The Stress of Court Dates and Feeling Unsupported
The client soon faced multiple court dates, including a pretrial hearing and a preliminary hearing shortly after. The pressure was immediate.
She also felt frustrated with her appointed attorney. Communication was minimal, and even requesting a lower bail required her to push for it. This is not uncommon. Public defenders are often overburdened. Even skilled attorneys may have limited time to investigate early, especially in fast-moving felony cases. For someone facing a life-altering charge, it can feel like no one is fighting for them.
Why Early Defense Matters in These Cases
A strong defense may involve:
identifying inconsistencies in witness statements
exposing bias or motive
preserving texts, call logs, and other evidence
challenging exaggerations before they become “facts” in court
presenting self-defense or lack of intent where appropriate
In emotionally charged breakups, accusations can be driven by retaliation, control, or fear. That does not mean every allegation is false, but it does mean every allegation must be tested against evidence.
A Felony Charge Can Change Everything
For a young client just starting her adult life, the stakes were enormous.
A felony accusation can impact employment, professional licensing, housing, education, and reputation long before a case is ever resolved. That is why early legal guidance matters. Waiting can allow the prosecution’s version of events to become the only version that matters.
If You Were Arrested After Calling 911, Don’t Assume the System Will Fix It
If you were arrested after a domestic violence incident and feel police only heard one side, you are not alone.
If biased witnesses shaped the story before you had a chance to explain what happened, you are not the first person this has happened to.
Attorney Nate Gjesdal defends clients throughout Orange County, Riverside County, and across Southern California.
If you are facing serious criminal accusations, contact Not Guilty Law to discuss your options.
Call or text (714) 455-9080.
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